The ladies at work are teaching me to be a better communicator. Men, by nature, suck at communication with the opposite sex. It is just not in our DNA. Better luck next time. Mars, Venus, it's all pretty difficult to muddle through for us. But, there is hope. The horizon is semi-clear. But, what happens to you when you are trying to change your non-communicating ways and you end up with a woman that is not a communicator.... where is the fairness in that?
But, as I tell my kids all the time... life is not always fair. There will always be a disconnect between the communication of men and women. I feel that if we were better suited and communicate better, the relationship would not work as well. A sort of my yin and your yang. Inversely complement each other.
Shanita...
I think what you are experiencing is called Karma...lol. Sorry David, I have no answers for you here. If you ask this person a direct question . . .will they answer? Of course now the conversation turns into an interrogation. My biggest peeve is that person that wants you to read their mind. That, I hate more than anything. I hate the cryptic comments that you have to parse and contemplate as to their possible meanings. Both reeks of passive aggression, again something I intensely dislike. My philosophy is if you want something, tell me. If I want something I certainly will tell you. If something is bothering you, tell me, because I'm sure going to tell you. If you need something...TELL ME!!! And if not, then don't expect me to try to figure it out.
David......
There it is again.... COMMUNICATION. Either you have it or you don't. Hard to walk on eggshells if you don't even know where they are. Once again... not fair. But as my friend once told me, "Life isn't always fair". Besides, reading minds is a lot to ask on top of reading it like a woman. That Venus and Mars thing is so complicated. Why can't everyone just be from Pluto???